Wednesday, February 27, 2008

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Tuesday, February 26, 2008

Nothing Compare To You -- Sinead O'Connor

It's been seven hours and fifteen days
Since u took your love away
I go out every night and sleep all day
Since u took your love away
Since u been gone I can do whatever I want
I can see whomever I choose
I can eat my dinner in a fancy restaurant
But nothing
I said nothing can take away these blues
`Cause nothing compares
Nothing compares 2 u
It's been so lonely without u here
Like a bird without a song
Nothing can stop these lonely tears from falling
Tell me baby where did I go wrong
I could put my arms around every boy I see
But they'd only remind me of you
I went to the doctor n'guess what he told me
Guess what he told me
He said girl u better have fun
No matter what u do
But he's a fool
`Cause nothing compares
Nothing compares 2 u
All the flowers that u planted, mama
In the back yard
All died when u went away
I know that living with u baby was sometimes hard
But I'm willing to give it another try
Nothing compares
Nothing compares 2 u
Nothing compares
Nothing compares 2 u
Nothing compares
Nothing compares 2 u

Saturday, February 23, 2008

Frozen -- Madonna

You only see what your eyes want to see
How can life be what you want it to be
You’re frozen
When your heart’s not open

You’re so consumed with how much you get
You waste your time with hate and regret
You’re broken
When your heart’s not open

Mmmmmm, if I could melt your heart
Mmmmmm, we’d never be apart
Mmmmmm, give yourself to me
Mmmmmm, you hold the key

Now there’s no point in placing the blame
And you should know I suffer the same
If I lose you
My heart will be broken

Love is a bird, she needs to fly
Let all the hurt inside of you die
You’re frozen
When your heart’s not open

Mmmmmm, if I could melt your heart
Mmmmmm, we’d never be apart
Mmmmmm, give yourself to me
Mmmmmm, you hold the key

You only see what your eyes want to see
How can life be what you want it to be
You’re frozen
When your heart’s not open

Mmmmmm, if I could melt your heart
Mmmmmm, we’d never be apart
Mmmmmm, give yourself to me
Mmmmmm, you hold the key

Mmmmmm, if I could melt your heart
Mmmmmm, we’d never be apart
Mmmmmm, give yourself to me
Mmmmmm, you hold the key

If I could melt your heart

credit: http://www.sing365.com/

Monday, February 18, 2008

hurt

“They insulted me; they hurt me; they defeated me; they cheated me.” In those who harbor such thoughts, hate will never cease.
- Dhammapada
Do not wrong or hate your neighbor for it is not he that you wrong but yourself.
- Native American - Pima

maybe thats true… hate somebody means we hate ourself, I dont wanna do this, but my heart can’t defeat it… why… I wanna be free, whatever they say abt me, I wanna be my self, take it by my self, do it fun by my self, no matter people say, it won’t make me hate somebody, won’t hurt me…

God give me strenght…

an exam

"You will have exactly two hours", said the profesor as he handed out examination papers to a roomful of students. "Under no circumstances will I accept a paper given to me after the deadline has passed. " Two hours later he broke the silence. "Time is up," he said. But one student continuited to work furiously.

The profesor was glaring out from behind the pile of exams when the trady student approached him, almost 15 minutes later, with his exam clutched behind his back. When the profesor refused to accept it, the student drew himself up to full stature and asked, "Profesor, doyou know who I am?"

"No", said the profesor.

"Terrific", replied the student, and he stuffed his paper into the middle of the pile.

credit: Reader's Diggest

Saturday, February 16, 2008

Cinderella

Cinderella, wouldn’t you like to go to the party?” asked one of the sisters.

“Why, you’re messing with me,” said Cinderella.

“I could never go to such an event.”

“You’re right,” they said.

“People would laugh if they saw Cinderwhore there.”

Anybody else would have dressed their hair in such a way to make them look ridiculous, but Cinderella, due to her good nature and cowardice, made their hair look very nice for the party.

That night, the sisters went off to the dance, leaving Cinderella to cry and cry. Her godmother tried to comfort her, asking, “You wish to go to the party, don’t you?”Cinderella, still in tears, nodded.

“I’ll fix you up,” said the godmother, who was a fairy when she was not busy being a godmother.

“Go get me a pumpkin from the garden,” she told Cinderella, who could not figure out how a pumpkin was going to help in the situation.

Cinderella brought the pumpkin to her straightaway, and the godmother touched it with her magic wand. Suddenly, it turned into a coach.

“Now, grab me that mouse trap,” she said. “We need horses for the coach.”

Cinderella did as she was told and lifted the trap door. Her godmother touched the mice with the wand and turned them into horses.

“Who is going to drive the coach?” asked Cinderella.

“Go to the closet,” replied the godmother.

Cinderella went to the closet and opened it. There was a man inside bound and gagged on the floor. Now, it appeared they had everything they needed.

“What about my clothes?” asked Cinderella, whose apparel consisted of mere rags.

When she was done dancing, she approached her two sisters knowing she had to be careful not to reveal her identity.

“Say,” they said. “You look just like our stepsister. What’s your name?”@“Cinderella,” she replied.

“What a coincidence,” they said. “Our stepsister’s name is Cinderella.”

Cinderella breathed a sigh of relief. They did not suspect a thing. The Prince was another admirer of hers that evening. He could look at nothing else. Finally, when the opportunity presented itself, he approached her.

“Excuse me,” he said. “Are you Cinderella?”

“Well, that’s not my real name,” she said. “That’s just what my sisters call me.”

“Oh, what’s your real name?”

“Beatrice.”

“I see,” said the Prince. “Well, would you like to dance, Cinderella?”

“Of course,” she replied happily.

They danced many times that evening. Suddenly, Cinderella heard the clock strike a quarter to twelve. She quickly left the Prince’s arms and fled the castle. When her sisters returned home later, Cinderella pretended that she had been sleeping the whole night and yawned.

“How was the party?” she asked.

“It was bitchin,” they said. “There was this princess there who looked like you, except she was prettier and smarter. The Prince was really hot for her too. After she left, he was asking if anybody knew her.”

The King’s men took Cinderella, dressed as she was in rags, to the King’s palace and brought her before the Prince. The Prince was delighted to see her finally and asked why she hid from him. Cinderella told the Prince that she feared if he saw her in rags that he might lose his love for her. The Prince chuckled.

“I’m not that shallow,” he said, “I don’t love your clothes, Cinderella. I love your body.”

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yeah, although it's just fictitious, I like this story, it work to amuse me hehe,,, even if I'm not gonna be a cinderella in real life :D

Thursday, February 14, 2008

val's day

"Happy Val's Day for you all"

hope all love are always in our hearts

Wednesday, February 13, 2008

pocky


I was so curius abt 'pocky' that I've heard lately, I find it in 'mbah google' yeay, I got it...
pocky is brand name of candy, that contains chocolate, this candy has a beautiful interface, doesn't it? saw it above *if the admin doesn't delete it xixixixi*
I wonder when I will taste it?? coz I couldn't find it i my country...
somebody here would mind bringing this pocky to me *hehehe*

Friday, February 8, 2008

The Click Five - Empty

Tried to take a picture
Of love
Didn't think I'd miss her
That much
I want to fill this new frame
But its empty

Tried to write a letter
In ink
Its been getting better
I think
I got a piece of paper
But its empty
Its empty

Maybe we're trying
Trying too hard
Maybe we're torn apart
Maybe the timing
Is beating our hearts
We're empty

And I've even wondered
If we
Should be getting under
These sheets
We could lie in this bed
But its empty
Its empty

Maybe we're trying
Trying too hard
Maybe we're torn apart
Maybe the timing
Is beating our hearts
We're empty

Oh oh
Oh oh
Oooooh
Oh oh
Oh oh

Maybe we're trying
Trying too hard
Maybe we're torn apart
Maybe the timing
Is beating our hearts
We're empty

We're empty
We're empty

Or will we end up getting hurt
Is this love a myth
So tell me are you in for this
There's so much more than we can see
More than you
More than me
It takes two to believe!

Maybe it's our first mistake
And baby that's alright
It's crazy how we lost ourselves tonight
Maybe it's our first mistake
And baby that's alright
It's crazy how we lost ourselves tonight
There's a reason why they say that we should give it time
But time is not enough
And that's the reason why when you're young you fall in love

And that's the reason why
When you're young you fall in love [2x]

credit: http://www.metrolyrics.com

Avril Lavigne - I Will Be

There's nothing I could say to you
Nothing I could ever do to make you see
What you mean to me

All the pain, the tears I cried
Still you never said goodbye and now I know
How far you'd go

Bridge:
I know I let you down
But it's not like that now
This time I'll never let you go

Chorus:
I will be, all that you want
And get myself together
Cause you keep me from falling apart

All my life, I'll be with you forever
To get you through the day
And make everything okay

Verse 2:
I thought that I had everything
I didn't know what life could bring
But now I see, honestly

You're the one thing I got right
The only one I let inside
Now I can breathe, cause you're here with me

Bridge:
And if I let you down
I'll turn it all around
Cause I would never let you go

Chorus:
I will be, all that you want
And get myself together
Cause you keep me from falling apart

All my life, I'll be with you forever
To get you through the day
And make everything okay

Ending bridge:
Cause without you I cant sleep
I'm not gonna ever, ever let you leave
You're all I've got, you're all I want
Yeah

And without you I don't know what I'd do
I can never, ever live a day without you
Here with me, do you see,
You're all I need

Chorus:
And I will be, all that you want
And get myself together
Cause you keep me from falling apart

All my life (my life), I'll be with you forever
To get you through the day
And make everything okay

Chorus:
I will be (I'll be), all that you want
And get myself together
Cause you keep me from falling apart

And all my life, you know I'll be with you forever
To get you through the day
And make everything okay

credit: http://www.metrolyrics.com

an email unsupported T_T

huhu.... I got an email, that my resume was unable to cacth the support language fiuh... u should know then, my English is very-very bad... even if I could use my English clearly I would use it in everyposting here ^_^
what should I do to improve my English?? may someone help me...

always stay cool and calm behaviour... see ya ^^

Amalan Andalan

Syahdan, tiga orang laki-laki kehujanan di hutan dan berteduh di dalam gua. Lalu sebuah batu besar jatuh tepat menutup jalan keluar. Ketiganya terjebak, dan setelah segala upaya untuk menggeser batu itu gagal, salah satu diantara mereka mengajak berdoa dengan menggunakan amalan andalan yang dikerjakan Karena Alloh – lillahi kholison.

Fulan pertama berdoa betapa pada suatu malam ketika dia pulang membawa susu, mendapati anaknya sedang menangis kelaparan. Susu tidak dia berikan kepada anaknya karena akan menghidangkannya terlebih dahulu kepada orang-tuanya. Begitu takzimnya, sampai-sampai membangunkan pun tidak berani, sampai terbit fajar. “Maka jika Engkau tahu bahwa saya berbuat demikian itu karena semata-mata mencari wajah-Mu… fa in kunta ta’lam annii fa’altu dzaalikab tighooa wajhika…” … batu bergeser sedikit, tetapi belum cukup besar bagi mereka untuk bisa keluar.

Fulan kedua berdoa betapa dia memiliki hasrat besar atas sepupunya yang cantik, yang memberinya syarat agar mengumpulkan terlebih dahulu sejumlah besar uang. Namun ketika uang terkumpul dan fulan sudah diatas tubuh perempuan itu, niatnya dibatalkan hanya karena kalimat: yaa abdallah ittaqillaah…wahai hamba Alloh, takutlah kepada Alloh… fa in kunta ta’lam annii qod fa’altu dzaalikab tighooa wajhika… batu bergeser lagi, tetapi lagi-lagi masih belum cukup besar.

Fulan ketiga berdoa betapa dia memiliki seorang pekerja yang tidak mengambil upahnya. Ketika beberapa tahun kemudian dia kembali dan menanyakan upahnya tsb, maka diberikannyalah sapi, karena upah pekerja itu memang dia gunakan untuk modal usaha, dan sapi adalah hasilnya. Fa in kunta ta’lam annii qod fa’altu dzaalikab tighooa wajhika… Akhirnya, setelah bergeser untuk ketiga kalinya, mereka bisa keluar.

Tiga amalan andalan: takdzim kepada orang tua mengalahkan sayang kepada anak, membatalkan nafsu syahwat ketika tinggal melakukannya, dan kejujuran luar biasa seorang majikan sehingga hasil usaha diserahkan seluruhnya kepada pekerja yang tidak tahu menahu tentang pemutaran upahnya menjadi modal usaha. Bandingkan dengan tiga ‘amalan andalan’ yang dikisahkan terdahulu: mati di medan perang, menyerahkan semua hartanya untuk sabilillah, dan mengajarkan ilmu dan membaca Al-Quran.

Tiga amalan andalan pertama mendapatkan pahala, bahkan instant dalam wujud doa yang langsung dikabulkan yang mampu menggeser batu besar. Tiga ‘amalan andalan’ kedua, yang justru lebih berat melaksanakannya, justru mendapatkan siksaan jahannam! Penyebabnya adalah, tiga yang terdahulu karena niatnya ibtighooa wajhika – mencari wajah-Nya, karena Alloh; sedangkan tiga yang kemudian karena niatnya ingin disebut pemberani, dermawan dan pandai, suaranya bagus.

Jangan sekali-kali mengaharapkan imbalan kecuali dari Alloh… in ajriya illaa’alallohi

Kalau memang

Kalau memang seorang yang berakhlak baik, tentunya mau datang ke rumah.

Kalau memang orang baik-baik, tentunya tidak keberatan memberitahukan sebenarnya dia.

Kalau memang orang yang bertaqwa, tentunya tidak akan meminta sesuatu yang belum menjadi haknya dan tidak akan berani melanggat batas-batas pergaulan sebagaimana yang ditetapkan oleh Alloh dan Rosul-Nya.

Wednesday, February 6, 2008

Che.r.r.y — Yui

Lyrics:
Tenohira de furueta, sore ga chiisa na yuuki ni natte ita nda
Emoji wa nigate datta, dakedo kimi kara dattara wakuwaku shichau

Henji wa sugu ni shicha dame datte, dare ka ni kiita koto aru kedo
Kakehiki nante dekinai no

…suki na no yo ah ah ah ah

Koi shichatta nda, tabun kidzuite nai deshou?
Hoshi no yoru negai komete CHE.R.RY
~Yubisaki de okoru kimi he no messeeji

Sakura ga saite iru, kono heya kara mieteru keshiki wo zembu
Ima kimi ga kanjita sekai to juubyou torikaete morau yori

Honno ichigyou demo kamawanai nda, kimi kara kotoba ga hoshii nda
Uso demo shinjitsudsukerareru no

…suki dakara ah ah ah ah

Koi shichatta nda, tabun kidzuite nai deshou?
Hoshi no yoru negai komete CHE.R.RY
~Yubisaki de okorou kimi he no messeeji

Amaku naru kajitsu ga ii no, nanigenai kaiwa kara sodatetai ah ah ah ah

Koi no hajimari, mune ga kyun to semaku naru
Itsu made mo matteru kara, haru no tsumetai yokaze ni azukete messeeji

Koi shichatta nda, tabun kidzuite nai deshou?
Hoshi no yoru negai komete CHE.R.RY
~Yubisaki de okorou kimi he no messeeji

Translation:
Something in my hands moved. It was my courage rising to the surface.
I’ve never liked emoticons, but I always love the ones you send me.

All my replies are silly, and yes, I’ve asked other people what to do,
But I can’t act like this is a game.

…because I like you, ah ah ah ah

I’ve fallen in love with you, but I doubt you’ll ever know.
How many stars have I wished on that you would,
As I write letters to you with my fingertips.

The cherry blossoms are in bloom, but I’d trade all of them
For ten seconds in the world you feel every moment.

I don’t care if this way is wrong, I just want to hear you talk to me.
Even if all you say is a pack of lies, I’ll still believe them.

…because I love you, ah ah ah ah

I’ve fallen in love with you, but I doubt you’ll ever know.
How many stars have I wished on that you would,
As I write letters to you with my fingertips.

I love all sorts of candies, but I want to grow up and talk about deep things, ah ah ah ah

I’m falling in love with you. My heart is twinging and crunching up.
I’ll wait for you forever, whispering my love to you on a cold night wind.

I’ve fallen in love with you, but I doubt you’ll ever know.
How many stars have I wished on that you would,
As I write letters to you with my fingertips.

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Tuesday, February 5, 2008

SI KECIL YANG “JATUH CINTA” KEPADA GURUNYA BISA MENINGKAT PRESTASINYA

Duh, anakku bilang dia suka dengan gurunya! Kok bisa ya? Padahal anakku masih SD loh!” bingung seorang ibu. Anda pernah mengalami hal serupa? Perasaan suka dapat dirasakan siapapun, tak terkecuali anak-anak. Namun jika yang disukai adalah sang guru sekolah, normal kah? Apa yang sebaiknya dilakukan orang tua jika hal tersebut terjadi? Benarkah rasa ‘cinta’ ini bisa membuat prestasinya meningkat?

Tentu mengejutkan mengetahui anak Anda sudah mulai “jatuh cinta.” Apalagi jika objeknya tak lain adalah guru di sekolahnya. Intensitas pertemuan yang tinggi antara anak dengan gurunya memungkinkan timbulnya kelekatan yang bisa berkembang ke arah suka. Sosok guru yang penuh perhatian dapat membuat anak merasa nyaman di dekat gurunya.

Bukan Cinta. Widyartri Sekka Udaranti, M.Si, Psi., mengungkapkan, “Sebagai manusia tentu wajar jika kita jatuh cinta kepada seseorang. Tapi bukan untuk anak yang masih kecil. Mereka belum paham makna jatuh cinta atau tertarik kepada lawan jenis. Bila ada guru yang menarik hatinya bisa saja terjadi karena guru sangat baik, memberi perhatian, pandai bergurau, lucu, sayang kepada anak-anak, sehingga anak menjadikan guru sebagai seorang role mode baginya.”

Jadi, sebagai orang tua jangan buru-buru khawatir, karena biasanya rasa suka ini sifatnya sementara. Karena memang masih sangat muda, biasanya rasa bosan akan muncul dan ia mungkin akan berhenti “jatuh cinta” kepada gurunya.

Bukan tak mungkin anak yang baru duduk di kelas 1 SD pun merasakan suka kepada orang yang lebih dewasa, seperti guru. Jika hal itu terjadi, penyebabnya biasanya karena anak kurang mendapat perhatian dari orang tua. Padahal pada usia awal sekolah, anak membutuhkan perhatian lebih, utamanya dalam beradaptasi dengan lingkungan baru. “Jika hal itu tak didapatkan di rumah melainkan didapat dari guru di sekolah, bukan tak mungkin anak akan merasa kagum kepada sosok yang dianggap bisa memberinya perhatian, kasih sayang serta kenyamanan, “ terang M.Nurhadi, S.Pd., pedagog yang juga staf pengajar SDN Pondok Labu 07 Pagi.

Kapan Mulai Suka? Sebenarnya kapankan seorang anak bisa “jatuh cinta”? ketertarikan kepada lawan jenis ini biasanya terjadi pada masa remaja, sekitar usia SMP, namun mungkin saja ketika anak duduk di kelas 5 atau 6 SD sudah mulai memasuki masa puber dan mulai tertarik kepada teman perempuan atau taman lelakinya. Selain kepada teman, mungkin saja anak jatuh cinta kepada guru, atau kepada orang dewasa lain yang dia anggap memiliki karakter menarik.

Biasanya, bila anak tertarik kepada guru, bukanlah hal yang serius. Anak biasanya senang dengan perasaan berdebar-debar bila dekat dengan gurunya atau mereka dapat bercanda dengan teman-teman dekatnya yang tahu akan “rahasia” bahwa ia menyenangi gurunya. “Dalam situasi ini, kesenangan itu sifatnya sementara dan satu belah pihak saja. Artinya, hanya anak yang tertarik. Sebaliknya, guru biasanya tidak tertarik bosan dan mengalihkan ketertarikannya kepada temannya,” lanjut Nurhadi.

Berefek Positif. “Efek positif saat anak merasa suka dengan gurunya, tentu dia cenderung melakukan hal-hal yang dianggap baik oleh gurunya karena ingin mendapat perhatian dari guru atau orang dewasa lain yang dia sukai. Hal ini dapat membantu mereka mengembangkan perilaku baik,” tambah Widayatri, Psikologi yang juga staf pengajar bagian psikologi pendidikan UI.

Hal itu diamini Nurhadi. “Jika anak suka kepada gurunya, tentu dia ingin selalu terlihat sebagai anak baik di hadapan guru tersebut, salah satu cara adalah dengan meningkatkan prestasi belajar agar mendapat simpati sang guru dan tak kehilangan perhatiannya,” imbuh pria kelahiran Tangerang, 11 Maret 1964 ini.

Ada Juga Sisi Negatifnya. Tentu ada pula efek negatif kala anak suka kepada gurunya. “Salah satunya, anak menjadi terlalu bertantung kepada gurunya sehingga dia jadi malas belajar, berakibat pada penurunan prestasi belajarnya di sekolah, “papar pria penyantap masakan Betawi ini.

Widayatri menambahkan, “Bila ternyata orang dewasa yang disukai melakukan hal-hal yang buruk, lantas anak meniru perilaku tersebut. Misalnya jika guru itu punya sifat jelek berkata kasar. Bisa saja anak mendengarkan dan menggunakan kata-kata kasar tersebut kepada orang lain karena dia menganggap apa yang diucapkan penjaga toko tersebut keren.”

Bertindak Agresif. Jika perasaan suka atau kagum kepada sosok guru makin besar, bukan hal yang mustahil jika anak agresif, misalnya memberikan coklat atau bahkan puisi untuk gurunya tersebut. “Peran orang tua adalah menjadi teman bagi anak. Ajak anak untuk bicara, hal-hal apa yang membuat dia begitu menyukai gurunya. Apalagi kalau anak senang dengan hal positif dari guru, kita tentu harus bersikap bijak. Kalau anak membuatkan puisi, sebenarnya dapat melatih perkembangan kreativitasnya. Kita sebagai orang tua hanya mengamati, apakah yang dilakukan anak masih wajar atau tidak. Misalnya bila puisi yang ia buat hanya berisi hal-hal yang menunjukkan bahwa guru adalah orang yang ia favoritkan, sebaiknya kita tidak perlu bertindak keras atau marah. Mungkin kita harus mulai membatasi bila isi puisi atau bahasa yang dipergunakan sudah mengarah ke hal-hal yang tidak sesuai umurnya,” beber Wida, psikolog kelahiran Yogyakarta, tahun 1976 ini.

Diejek Teman. Buah perilaku agresif tersebut tentu menarik perhatian teman-teman si anak untuk melontarkan berbagai Komentar, termasuk yang bernada ejekan atau sindiran, “Ada anak tertentu yang tidak menganggap ejekan teman sebagai suatu masalah. Tapi, ada juga anak-anak yang merasa malu bila diejek teman-temannya. Sebagai orang tua dan guru, yang penting tetap biasakan komunikasi dengan anak supaya kita mengetahui apa perasaannya dan dapat membantunya bila hal itu sudah mengganggunya, “saran Wida.

Senada dengan Wida, Nurhadi menegaskan, dari pihak guru pun sebaiknya bisa saja menanggapi hal itu. Bila anak membuatkan puisi atau hasil karya tertentu, hargai. Tak ada salahnya jika coklat yang diberikan, diterima lalu dinikmati bersama dengan murid lainnya di kelas, sebagai bentuk penghargaan atas usaha anak menyenangkan gurunya. “Sama seperti sikap orang tua, maak guru juga tidak perlu terlalu khawatir, ingat “jatuh cinta” ini biasanya hanya sementara,” ulas Nurhadi dengan Santai.

credit: Tabloid Mom&Kid

Cek_Virus

beberapa hari ini pelanggan nanya

“ni apa to mbak? kok abis nancepin flash disk di komp sini ada folder ini”

“…”

“wedew… saia engga tw e mbak”

“entar saia cek dulu…”

“yg mw di-print yang mana?”

“oh yang ini….” bla bla bla…

mbaknya ud pegi… *thatha… :P *

googling ah googling…

ketikan “google” tekan ctrl+enter sama2

kata kunci “Cek_Virus” buka halamannya satu-satu…

rata2 sama neh jawabannya… kek ini

yang bahas

ato ini

ulasannya –> walo engga banyak

sama nih ma yang ini

aduh bo… cara2nya ud kulalukan cuman yang di c:windows gak nemu tuh file…

semoga berhasil deh… malu kan kalo ada yang nancepin fd trs ketularan nih folder :(

wish me luck, see ya