Marriage of couple will not be confessed in Bali society otherwise they did traditional ceremony in trust of Hinduism and the couple will be excommunicated from their countryside.
There are three marriage styles in Bali:
" Ngerorod : Where men and woman arranges meeting somewhere according the vision of girl’s parent and spends the night together in house of a friend. In this situation, the girl is not allowed to return to her parent and stay, and curriculum vitae life is beforehand, but in most the girl’s parent is no wonder. They make exhibition either pretend to get restless of the naughty of the boy and his family for their daughter.
" Memadik : Form of marriage in Bali which the parent and member of family of the boy comes to the girl’s parent house and with respect asks their daughter.
" Nyentana : Marriage system in Bali which the boy go to the girl house and thereafter belong to the girl’s family.
After usul or escapee, a priest does simple ceremony to call mekala-kalaan, it is look like marriage of small civil in west world. The couple use traditional clothes of Bali so that they have been married legally.
The boy in general has reception for friends which is not invited until traditional ceremony been held. Three days after marriage procession, the family visit the son of girl’s family, in its house, the ceremony of ketipat bantal is done. Mantras sung and devoting given to clean sperm and egg in hoping both of them would free of badness influence and devil will not bother in embryo forming. Last years ago, system of marriage in Bali is very strick. Only couple from the same caste may married, to look after purity of caste system. In this era now, caste system shall no longer hold still be such about flexibility of bali and more excrutiatingly is permitted.
to be continued...